How Investing In Others Are Making The World A Better Place | World Of Business

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Be successful by investing in other



Hmmm, I know you will be thinking right now how can I succeed by investing in others? Yes, you can. The most important thing people want from us is a feeling of importance. “Everybody likes a compliment.” everyone is longing to be appreciated. People sometimes became invalids in order to win sympathy and attention, and get a feeling of importance. Do we know that sometimes people go insane just for them to feel that importance? If some people are so hungry for a feeling of importance that they actually go insane to get it, imagine what miracle you and I can achieve by giving people an honest appreciation of this side of insanity. Let us learn to speak words that will transform our lives. We develop the best in people by showing appreciation and also by encouragement. There is nothing that kills the ambitions of a person as criticisms from superiors.


You see, if they don't like a thing, they bawl out; if they do like it, they say nothing, that is what average people do. but is not supposed to be so. We should learn to praise people publicly as well as privately. Even if the person did bad, we should not criticize, but find something to praise the person for. Do we know one of the reasons why marriages fail? It's a lack of appreciation. We often take our spouses, children, families, and friends, so much for granted that we never let them know we appreciate them. If we know what showing appreciations can do for us, we will never stop showing sincere appreciation to people. People long for appreciation.

We nourish the bodies of our children, friends, families, and employees, by providing them with all kinds of food to build energy, but we neglect to give them kind words of appreciation that would sing in their memories for years like the music of the morning stars. Sincere appreciation can change a person's life.
For instance, our popular musician Stevie Morris was known as Stevie Wonder, was asked by his teacher to help her find a mouse that was lost in the classroom. You see, she appreciated the fact that nature had given Stevie something no one else in the room had. Nature had given Stevie remarkable pairs of ears to compensate him for his blind eyes. But do you know what, this was really the first time Stevie had been shown appreciation for those talented ears? That act of appreciation was the beginning of a new life for him. From that time on he developed his gift of hearing and went on to become one of the great pop singer and songwriters of the seventies.


You see, I know some of you will say appreciation, yes, I mean sincere appreciation, not flattery. Some people are so hungry, so thirsty, for appreciation that they will swallow anything. Here I don't mean flattery. But do you know what flattery will do to you? Flattery will do you more harm than good. What I mean is this; flattery is counterfeit like we have counterfeit money, it will eventually get you into trouble if you pass it to someone else.
Do we know the difference between sincere appreciation and flattery? It is simple
  • One is sincere and the other is insincere.
  • One comes from the heart and the other comes from the teeth.
  • One is unselfish and the other is selfish.
  • One is universally admired and the other is universally condemned.
The real meaning of flattery is: it is telling the other person precisely what he thinks about himself.
When we are not engaged in thinking about some definite problem, we spend about 95% of our time thinking about ourselves.
Now if we stop thinking about ourselves for a while and begin to think of the other person's good points, we won't have to resort to flattery so cheap and false that it can be spotted almost before it is out of the mouth. One of the most neglected virtues of our daily existence is appreciation.

Somehow, we neglect to praise our son or daughter when he or she does something good and we fail to encourage our children when they do creative things for the first time. Nothing pleases children more than kind of parental interest and approval.

I have found out that most people find it hard to send words to the chef where they eat an excellently prepared meal at the restaurant. Even in the offices, shops, factories and families and friends. In our interpersonal relations, we should never forget that all our associates are human beings and hunger for appreciation. Try leaving a friendly trail of little sparks of gratitude on your daily trips. There's this particular saying; “That if you praise someone for what he or she did, he or she will have more strength to do more.”

Honest appreciation got results where criticism and ridicule failed. Any good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. That is why I learn from every person I meet because they are my superior in some way.

My final, take on this is, let's cease thinking of our accomplishments, our wants, let's try to figure out the other person's good points. Then forget flattery. Give honest, and sincere appreciation. Be “hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise,” and people will cherish your words and treasure them and repeat them over a lifetime and even years after you have forgotten them.

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6 Ways on How to Keep Your Marriage And Sex Life Fresh | Relationship

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Keeping your marriage and sex life fresh

Hello everyone, today I am going to talk about keeping your marriage and sex life fresh. Now how do you achieve this? You see, sex doesn't have to get boring in marriage. As the years go by, your sex life should always get better. 


So, here are some ways to keep your marriage and sex life fresh. 

first thing first, we ought to know that communication is the key to healthy and active sex life in a marital relationship, so talk with one another more often! So, share with one another your desires. Talk with one another about what your expectations are concerning lovemaking. You have to bear in mind that unmet expectations can hurt your marriage.




Sexual intimacy is a continuous process and true communication is what makes sex great. Sex in a long-lasting relationship can deepen and become a richer experience. 


You see, in all your busy schedules, I still believe that you should set the mood in advance. If you want to have good sex at night, you have to start the foreplay in the morning. 


Also, let your spouse know that you care for him/her by sending text messages, phone calls, etc. 




THE WAYS TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE AND SEX LIFE FRESH


1. It is important to have a healthy sexually active married life. It is a terrific stress reliever and it helps you build a closer relationship with your spouse. It is never too late to try to rekindle that sexual life.

2. Flirt with your spouse. Tease your spouse. Make your spouse desire you. Dress up for your spouse. Be irresistible. Be passionately romantic.

3. Don't be in a hurry to do the damn thing, because that is disregarding your partner's feelings. take time for foreplay, like kissing and caressing your spouse. Make your spouse feel special.

4. Watch your spouse's reactions. This is a good way to find out what turns them on. 

5. Try new positions and things you haven't done before. You may even discover something you really like and be open to new ideas. Suggest new things.

6. Always remember, that it is possible that you won't like everything you try so don't give up. Always, do what you can to make your spouse feel good, and tell your spouse what him/she can do to please you. You see, the key to the best sex is working together. Once you and your spouse get on the same page, then there will be nothing less than incredible.


NOTE:

* Remember, that sex isn't going to be perfect each time. Don't compare your sex life to the ones you see in movies.

* Being grouchy all day or ignoring your spouse during the day hurts your chances of having a positive lovemaking experience that evening.

* Recognize that abstinence now and then can be beneficial to your relationship if you start to lust after one another more.

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