Success Tips That Will Change Your Life | Glamour Tips

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Do you know why I choose the answers because I have found out that Intelligence has been overrated in as an ingredient for success.

What are the ingredients for success?

I know some of us will be like what do you mean by ingredients for success? Have you ever find yourself asking if you will ever make it in a world like ours where everybody seems to value degrees and titles above everything else? 

Yes, there are ingredients for you to be successful in life which are:

1) Hardworking,
2) Knowing what you don't know,
3) Asking for help.


Do you know why I choose the answers because I have found out that Intelligence has been overrated in as an ingredient for success? Speaking from experience, intelligence has often made so many people lazy, over-confident and even proud. I also found out that the most successful people in any field are those who ask for help because they know what they do not know, and they work hard for it.
Hard Work Pays

In this particular aspect, I have seen two categories of people which are;
1. People who believe that hard work pays.
2. People who don't believe that hard work pays.

To be honest, I must tell you that hard work alone doesn't guarantee success, but lack of hard work guarantees failure.
You see, I don't know where you are in your career, whether you are just starting or you are considering making a great change in your life, I will always want you to remember to combine hard work with smart work. By getting closer to people who can add value to your skills. And also never you waste mistakes but use them to build yourself.

Making Wise Decisions

I would like to ask you, would you consider yourself a decision maker? We all make decisions every day of our lives. You see, for me whether big or small, significant or insignificant, decision confront us every day. And there is no running away from them either. 

Do we even know that indecision is a decision? Yes. That is why I always let you know that when the time comes for you to make up your mind on something, don't fool yourself into thinking that putting it off will make it any easier for you.

There is this saying, by Lewis C.S "Crying is all right in its way while it lasts. But you have to stop sooner or later, and still, you have to decide what to do."
Another thing I noticed is that; some people take longer than others to make up their minds? I don't know if you have noticed it! Not because they want to make sure their choices yield the best results, but because of fear of the consequences of a bad choice. It might be fear of criticism, fear of failure, fear of losing money or power. From my experience, it's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are. 

Yes, look at your own values and use them consistently until you are hardly conscious of the process. And that is it.

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How to Reach Your Biggest Goals | Goal Setting

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Goal Setting

Talking about reaching our biggest goal! Do you think you can reach that biggest goal of yours? Yes, of course, you can reach that biggest goal of yours. Reaching that biggest goal in life requires you to have some great qualities. But sometimes in life, we give up on our goals because we don't follow all the things we should do. We all are guilty of this act.

You see, from now on you are going to achieve all your goals in life, you are not going to be like those people who dream and yet do not achieve their dreams.

I found out why some people have not achieved their goals, it's not that they don't have a great goal, but it's because they give up on their goal too soon.

Now if this echo with you, then I want you to stop and become one of those who always achieve their dreams. These are my experience and these are the things I always advise people and I want to share them with you. how you can achieve that huge success you have dreamt about.
                                         

Here are the great qualities on how to reach your biggest goals;


1. Have a Positive Mindset

You see, for me, the first thing first is for you to have a positive mindset in everything you want to do in life. You also have to believe in yourself even when others do not believe in you. These are my personal experience. And for you to achieve this you must surround yourself with people with a great mindset, positive and those who inspire you.

2. Have To Be Adaptable

You see, being adaptable is to be able to adjust yourself to different conditions. This is one of my biggest secrets and that is asking questions because that is what helped me to learn something new every day. For you to achieve that great success you must have an open mind to opportunities. Like I said No 1 above that you have to surround yourself with people who you can learn from, those who have gone through that road you are on now. This is what will open you to that great strategies to achieve that great goal of yours.

3. Have To Be Persistent

In this aspect, when you are trying to achieve that goal of yours, some people will definitely want you no to achieve that goal. There are the things I have gone through in life. You see, I will always prove them wrong by staying strong and that is me for real. I will like to tell you that, for you to achieve that great success of yours, you don't have to give up. So, keep moving towards your goals.

4. Have To Be Resilient

Actually, this is one of the qualities that determine your success in life. You see, resilience is returning to that original form or position after being thrown off the path of success. There will be people who will try to tell you that you cannot make it in life. Another thing is that you will face challenges that will make you quit but be strong.

5. Have To Be Patient

This is another great quality that you need to make it in this life. You see, to achieve success you must be patient, especially when you are going through your great goals. Everyone wants to achieve their goals. I always advise people whatever good you want to achieve, requires patient! patient!! patient!!! Great things take time so, be patient enough.

My final take is that you deserve to achieve your dream and goals. And for you to achieve that you must take the right steps by Have Positive Mindset, Have To Be Adaptable, Have To Be Persistent, Have To Be Resilient, and Have To Be Patient to be able to achieve that goal.

What goals do you want to achieve? Believe you can do it. Hope you enjoyed this? Let me know what you think in the comment session.

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Why Marriages Will Make You Question Everything | Relationship

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Real love will always cost you more.


What do you think marriage is all about? For me, I think marriage is all about sacrifice! marriage is a place where love can be shown in different ways, both big and small. In marriage, there must be a reason behind every sacrifice that you make in your marriage. So, find out what is the reason for your sacrifices.


So, diving in we are going to categorize it in two ways,

1. What marriage teaches you

2. What marriage cost you

1. WHAT MARRIAGE TEACHES YOU


a. LOVE/REAL COMMITMENT

For you to be in a marriage in the first place, you must have loved the person you are married to. And talking about love, love is all about sacrificing everything. For you to be in marriage there must be commitment. And in a real marriage, there must be a real commitment. Talking about real commitment, it's all about offering yourself up in a big and small way. That is what marriage is all about.


b. FORGIVENESS
Marriage also teaches us to forgive after we have been hurt. In the journey of marriage, you will experience hurt that is for sure, no matter how lovely your marriage seems you must experience that hurt and that is natural because we are human we are not God we are bound to make mistakes. So if anyone tells you that his or her own marriage has never experienced hurt is a big lie.


c. TIME
Being in a marriage is another world of its own. For that marriage to work or for you to have that perfect marriage, you have to give all your time. When I say give your time is not giving partial time I mean all your time. You have to give it even when is not convenient for you. For instance, you are a work and even after you are back from work whether you like it or not you must tidy up the home. So, you see is not easy being in a marriage.


d. SHARING/GIVING
For sure you must share if you really love your partner. In marriage, it shouldn't be about I or ME always, It's about WE, it also about you giving your partner the piece of food (what you have) for them to enjoy too. It is also sharing what you have in your heart instead of holding back; by opening up to your partner whom you say you love.


So, in general, what marriage teaches is that you respond with love even when you are boiling in anger. it also teaches you to lend your ears to your partner even when your eyes are deep in sleep. It also teaches us that we must learn to make sacrifices. It also makes you put your partner's needs in front of your own and give their desire more importance.

2. WHAT MARRIAGE COST YOU

Talking about what marriage costs, what is it that comes to your mind? Do you really think is all about what you spent on your wedding? Nah! Another thing is that the society we are in today has made everything go so wrong that, they don't tolerate anything less and also that marriage is what makes you happy and once you are not happy, you can abandon the marriage; that is given up on love. Which is very very wrong.

You see, in marriage the more you give the better you will be. Real love will always cost you more. Being in a real marriage will cost you your time, your heart, your comfort, your pride, your right, and everything that you invest in your commitment. That is why before you go into marriage you must consider these things first. 

This is what will help your marriage to last. remember in marriage the more you give the more you receive.

Hope you enjoyed this post? Please let me know below the comment :)

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9 Great Tips on How to Create a Peaceful Life | Glamour Tips

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Avoid anything or anyone that will make you unhappy. It is a choice.

Have you ever dream of having a peaceful and passionate life? And you still do not have that peaceful and passionate life. These are the things I have practice myself and the result is fabulous, that is why I have chosen to share my ideas with you all. So here are some tips to create a peaceful life.



HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO CREATE A PEACEFUL LIFE


1. Your Thoughts Are Powerful
What do you think about? Do you know that your thoughts are very powerful? Your words and character are the results of your thought. So, try to think positively.

2. Choose To Be Happy
You see, you have to choose to be happy. Do not allow anyone to make you unhappy. It is up to you to choose to be happy. Always put a smile on your face, no matter what the circumstance may be. Avoid anything or anyone that will make you unhappy. It is a choice.

3. Don't Be Distracted
Actually, in this life, there are a lot of things that will distract you, but don't give in to it. I said these because I have experienced it so many times, you will see some people will know your mission but will purposely try as much they can to distract you from what you want to achieve in life. Be focused on your dream or vision. Remember, it's your job to maintain your positive space.



4. Always Know Your Relationship
What do I mean by always know your relationship? What is your relationship with yourself? Remember, that everything is relationships. You relate with everything around you, your husband, wife, children, job, anything. All these things emanate from how you feel about yourself.

5. Doing What You Love
Doing what you love is recognizing the freedom you have and knowing what you love and embrace it. What do you know already? Start formatting your life around with what you love. Always seek the experience and it will find you.

6. Know Your Gift
You see, that thing that you love to do is not your only gift given to you by God. For you to know your other gift is the way you handle your insecurities. This thing is what shape your life and give you a sense of belonging.



7. Be Yourself
Unfortunately, so many people in life, are trying so hard to be somebody else. You see, another way to be yourself is giving yourself permission to explore and uncover what you really love. Stop imitating others and open up yourself to find what you love.

8. Do Act Intentionally
You see, taking intentional actions helps you create a natural flow in life. I always set my intentions and make such I act on them and see how it goes. How you shape your reality is by directing that flow. That is the part I love the most.

9. You Create Something New
In fact, in this part, I have found out that most people are afraid of trying and failing. Don't worry if you're creating something and failed in the process. I will always want you to know that FAILURE is part of SUCCESS.

Related Post: Success Tips That Will Change Your Life

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7 Best Things Every mother Should Do for Their Children on a Daily Basis | Parenting

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Hug them as much as you can because it helps to make the relationship stronger

You see, being a mother is an awesome thing. Is not just giving birth to a child that makes you a mother, but it's actually what comes with it that makes you a real mother. In the midst of our busy days, it is easy to go through the hours. 

So, as a Mother make sure you don't miss these 7 best things every mother should do for their children on a daily basis for you to have a strong relationship with your children.

1. Be Sure to Show Your Children Affection
Talking about affection. What does it mean? It simply means that fond attachment, devotion, or love. You see, as a mother, you should take time to really connect with your child or children. You can show affection by kissing your children on the cheek (as they wake up from bed in the morning, before they go into their class, etc.). Hug them as much as you can because it helps to make the relationship stronger.
 
2. Be Sure to Give Your Children Full Attention
Actually, in this aspect, we know what we need to be able to achieve, but sincerely it's not easy. So, we really need to put down everything we are doing and give our children the attention they want.

3. Be Sure to Use Sweet Words on Your Children
You see, as a mother, make sure that you do your best that most of what you say to your children shows your love and acceptance. Always compliment them whenever they do something great and that will show you love them.

4. Be Sure to Laugh with Your Children
When your children are discussing something, and there's something funny join them to laugh about it. In the same way, you can as well tickle them for the fun. A strong relationship between the mother and the children needs a good dose of levity.

5. Be Sure to Be Kind to Your Children
In this aspect, I have seen some parents who claim to love their children, but they are not kind to these children at all. But the truth is that love without kindness doesn't feel very loving at all. That is why we need to be kind to our children.
 
6. Be Sure to Always Pray with Your Children
Hahaha! In this aspect, actually, you ought to pray with your children. Because when you do this; you are teaching your children that you and your family rely on God for everything and these will also teach them to rely on God as well.

7. Be Sure to Discipline Your Children with Love
Actually, sometimes we think that discipline our children with a harsh tone is the best and is effective but sincerely is not good at all. You can discipline your children with calmness and even have an effective result. So, screaming at them is not a good idea at all.

So guys, please share what you think about this post and if there is something else mothers should do for their children.

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10 Great Things About Loving Fathers | Parenting

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Loving fathers are self-sacrificing and protect their children.

You see, in this life, I have gone through a lot in my life. And I have really learned a lot, you know what they say that experience is the best teacher, so, that is why I have chosen to share some of my life experience about loving father. Loving fathers are self-sacrificing and protect their children.

Here are 10 great things about a loving father.


1. They love their wife
You see, as a loving father you love your wife more without any reservation, that is the number one thing, and that is the best thing you can do for your children. Even if you are divorced, or separated, you have to treat the mother of your children with respect, even if she doesn't respect you, you are doing it for your children, because that is what the children will grow up with.

2. They are always there for the children
You see, being there for your children is all about time. How much time do you make for your family? Quality time is very good, that is why you have to make out time for your children. Remember, every one of us has the same 24 hours available, always be there whenever they need you. always make yours count.

3. They love their children unconditionally
In this aspect make sure that you know you love them no matter the condition. You see, you don't have to confuse this with permissiveness. unconditional love does not encourage the wrong kind of behavior. In fact, I found out that kids are secured with the father's love that acts out less, not more.

4. They always provide for the family

5. They always take the hard step
In this aspect, the children want a father. The children want someone who makes tough decisions, thinks things through, and who engages life with responsibility. Not the father that runs away from his responsibility. The children want someone they can count on always.

6. They discipline their children
The fact is that children appreciate a balance and love-drenched discipline. You can call it consistency and without clearly defined boundaries, you all know that it is very difficult to grow up. Remember, you don't discipline your children to the extent of abusing them.

7. They teach their children to take responsibility
Loving fathers make sure their children know how to own up, clean up, and move forward. Not to get stuck. They also teach their children to take responsibility for their actions in whatever they do in life.

8. They value education 
You see, as a loving father, you don't just read to your children; but you have to read with them. Another thing is that as a loving father, you don't just get excited about their grades; but you get involved with their homework. And also participate in whatever the parent is doing in your children's school.

9. They teach them to love this life
I have found out that, the best predictor of happiness in children is the happiness in their parents. Yes, because the children learn from whatever the parents are doing. And if we learn how to love this life and then pass that blessing to our children, they will be well prepared for satisfaction.

10. They raise their children to leave
This is the simple goal of the parent. Yes being a family and parenting your children doesn't look more complicated. Your duty as a parent is to raise your children up to be well equipped to leave a home and to establish faithful lives. Not to raise them to be your slave.

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How Investing In Others Are Making The World A Better Place | World Of Business

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Be successful by investing in other



Hmmm, I know you will be thinking right now how can I succeed by investing in others? Yes, you can. The most important thing people want from us is a feeling of importance. “Everybody likes a compliment.” everyone is longing to be appreciated. People sometimes became invalids in order to win sympathy and attention, and get a feeling of importance. Do we know that sometimes people go insane just for them to feel that importance? If some people are so hungry for a feeling of importance that they actually go insane to get it, imagine what miracle you and I can achieve by giving people an honest appreciation of this side of insanity. Let us learn to speak words that will transform our lives. We develop the best in people by showing appreciation and also by encouragement. There is nothing that kills the ambitions of a person as criticisms from superiors.


You see, if they don't like a thing, they bawl out; if they do like it, they say nothing, that is what average people do. but is not supposed to be so. We should learn to praise people publicly as well as privately. Even if the person did bad, we should not criticize, but find something to praise the person for. Do we know one of the reasons why marriages fail? It's a lack of appreciation. We often take our spouses, children, families, and friends, so much for granted that we never let them know we appreciate them. If we know what showing appreciations can do for us, we will never stop showing sincere appreciation to people. People long for appreciation.

We nourish the bodies of our children, friends, families, and employees, by providing them with all kinds of food to build energy, but we neglect to give them kind words of appreciation that would sing in their memories for years like the music of the morning stars. Sincere appreciation can change a person's life.
For instance, our popular musician Stevie Morris was known as Stevie Wonder, was asked by his teacher to help her find a mouse that was lost in the classroom. You see, she appreciated the fact that nature had given Stevie something no one else in the room had. Nature had given Stevie remarkable pairs of ears to compensate him for his blind eyes. But do you know what, this was really the first time Stevie had been shown appreciation for those talented ears? That act of appreciation was the beginning of a new life for him. From that time on he developed his gift of hearing and went on to become one of the great pop singer and songwriters of the seventies.


You see, I know some of you will say appreciation, yes, I mean sincere appreciation, not flattery. Some people are so hungry, so thirsty, for appreciation that they will swallow anything. Here I don't mean flattery. But do you know what flattery will do to you? Flattery will do you more harm than good. What I mean is this; flattery is counterfeit like we have counterfeit money, it will eventually get you into trouble if you pass it to someone else.
Do we know the difference between sincere appreciation and flattery? It is simple
  • One is sincere and the other is insincere.
  • One comes from the heart and the other comes from the teeth.
  • One is unselfish and the other is selfish.
  • One is universally admired and the other is universally condemned.
The real meaning of flattery is: it is telling the other person precisely what he thinks about himself.
When we are not engaged in thinking about some definite problem, we spend about 95% of our time thinking about ourselves.
Now if we stop thinking about ourselves for a while and begin to think of the other person's good points, we won't have to resort to flattery so cheap and false that it can be spotted almost before it is out of the mouth. One of the most neglected virtues of our daily existence is appreciation.

Somehow, we neglect to praise our son or daughter when he or she does something good and we fail to encourage our children when they do creative things for the first time. Nothing pleases children more than kind of parental interest and approval.

I have found out that most people find it hard to send words to the chef where they eat an excellently prepared meal at the restaurant. Even in the offices, shops, factories and families and friends. In our interpersonal relations, we should never forget that all our associates are human beings and hunger for appreciation. Try leaving a friendly trail of little sparks of gratitude on your daily trips. There's this particular saying; “That if you praise someone for what he or she did, he or she will have more strength to do more.”

Honest appreciation got results where criticism and ridicule failed. Any good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. That is why I learn from every person I meet because they are my superior in some way.

My final, take on this is, let's cease thinking of our accomplishments, our wants, let's try to figure out the other person's good points. Then forget flattery. Give honest, and sincere appreciation. Be “hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise,” and people will cherish your words and treasure them and repeat them over a lifetime and even years after you have forgotten them.

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6 Ways on How to Keep Your Marriage And Sex Life Fresh | Relationship

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Keeping your marriage and sex life fresh

Hello everyone, today I am going to talk about keeping your marriage and sex life fresh. Now how do you achieve this? You see, sex doesn't have to get boring in marriage. As the years go by, your sex life should always get better. 


So, here are some ways to keep your marriage and sex life fresh. 

first thing first, we ought to know that communication is the key to healthy and active sex life in a marital relationship, so talk with one another more often! So, share with one another your desires. Talk with one another about what your expectations are concerning lovemaking. You have to bear in mind that unmet expectations can hurt your marriage.




Sexual intimacy is a continuous process and true communication is what makes sex great. Sex in a long-lasting relationship can deepen and become a richer experience. 


You see, in all your busy schedules, I still believe that you should set the mood in advance. If you want to have good sex at night, you have to start the foreplay in the morning. 


Also, let your spouse know that you care for him/her by sending text messages, phone calls, etc. 




THE WAYS TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE AND SEX LIFE FRESH


1. It is important to have a healthy sexually active married life. It is a terrific stress reliever and it helps you build a closer relationship with your spouse. It is never too late to try to rekindle that sexual life.

2. Flirt with your spouse. Tease your spouse. Make your spouse desire you. Dress up for your spouse. Be irresistible. Be passionately romantic.

3. Don't be in a hurry to do the damn thing, because that is disregarding your partner's feelings. take time for foreplay, like kissing and caressing your spouse. Make your spouse feel special.

4. Watch your spouse's reactions. This is a good way to find out what turns them on. 

5. Try new positions and things you haven't done before. You may even discover something you really like and be open to new ideas. Suggest new things.

6. Always remember, that it is possible that you won't like everything you try so don't give up. Always, do what you can to make your spouse feel good, and tell your spouse what him/she can do to please you. You see, the key to the best sex is working together. Once you and your spouse get on the same page, then there will be nothing less than incredible.


NOTE:

* Remember, that sex isn't going to be perfect each time. Don't compare your sex life to the ones you see in movies.

* Being grouchy all day or ignoring your spouse during the day hurts your chances of having a positive lovemaking experience that evening.

* Recognize that abstinence now and then can be beneficial to your relationship if you start to lust after one another more.

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3 Reasons Why People Are Never Satisfied With What They Have | Lifestyle

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3 REASONS WHY PEOPLE ARE NEVER SATISFIED WITH WHAT THEY HAVE - LIFESTYLE

You see, would you consider yourself satisfied with what you have? I have found out that the richest people here on earth are the “unhappiest people”.

Have you ever find yourself after you have bought what you always wanted, you are still not satisfied?

So the question is why are we never satisfied with what we have? 

1. WE DON'T APPRECIATE WHAT WE HAVE ALREADY

Yes, there is this popular saying that, people don't appreciate what they have until they lose it. You see, that thing that you have maybe what someone else needs badly. Please, let's appreciate what we have for it is gold.


2. WE ALWAYS HAVE HIGHER EXPECTATIONS

You see, in this life, we ought to be clear about what we want, what we expect, and the outcome of it. What I will say is this, expect the best but then, you have to know that anything that happens is always for the best.


3. WE ALWAYS BELIEVE THAT SOMETHING OUT THERE IS BETTER THAN WHAT WE HAVE

For sure, most of us never get satisfied with what they have and that is why they will be like, I must have what he or she has. So, that's why the desire to have more continues to grow. 

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4 Tips on How You Can Invest in Your Personality

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Personality is the quality of your person.



Hello everyone here is my first post and I really believe that you will take out a little time out of your tight schedule to read my blog. Today I decided to write a little based on tips on how you can invest in your personality.

I am going to start by defining what personality simply means.


WHAT IS PERSONALITY? 

Personality is the quality of your person. How you think, your feelings, and also your behaviors are what make you a person. It's also what makes you unique.


When I say invest in your personality, I simply mean invest in your person.



You see the way you dress is the way you will be addressed.


4 TIPS ON HOW YOU CAN INVEST IN YOUR PERSON

1. First thing first, you have to be yourself, don't try to copy other people, don't be influenced by what people do.


2. Do what you love. 
When I say do what you love simply means doing what you are good at. And when you do this, it will boost your confidence.


3. Another thing is to dress properly. 
You see the way you dress is the way you will be addressed.

4. Possess knowledge. 
In this aspect, you have to be knowledgeable. Learn something. Make sure that a day will not pass without you learning something. When you possess the knowledge, you speak what others can't speak.

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